The festive season is magical… and overwhelming. The endless to-do lists, work deadlines that don’t pause for mince pies, and the pressure to create perfect holiday memories can leave you feeling more frazzled than festive.

You’re not alone – and it doesn’t have to be this way.

Here are some quick, practical tips and coaching questions to help you reclaim your calm, feel more connected, and enjoy the holidays your way.

1.Reclaim Your Priorities

You don’t have to do it all. Seriously. Instead of trying to tick every box, focus on what truly matters to you and your family.
📝Try this: Write down everything you feel you “should do” this Christmas.
Circle 3-5 things that genuinely bring you and your family the most joy.
Let go of the rest. And if that’s really not possible, what can you simplify or delegate?

2. Let Go of Perfection

Your kids won’t remember if the decorations weren’t themed or if the gingerbread wasn’t homemade. What they’ll remember are the moments of love and laughter.

💭 Ask yourself: If I let go of perfection, what could I create more space for instead?

3. Protect Your Energy
Between work, parenting, and all the prep, it’s easy to end up running on empty. But you can’t enjoy it if you’re drained.
Think of your energy like a battery. What activities drain it? What recharges it? Make space for recharging, even if it’s just 10 minutes to sip your tea in peace or a brisk walk to clear your mind.
💭 Ask yourself: What’s one small thing I can commit to daily in December

4. Prioritise Connection

At its heart, the festive season is about connection – with your loved ones and yourself. Instead of packing your calendar, focus on small moments that matter: a bedtime story by the tree or a cosy family movie night.

💭 Ask yourself: How can I create space for meaningful connection that doesn’t add to the chaos?

5. Celebrate Your Wins

As the year winds down, take a moment to reflect on how far you’ve come this year. Celebrating your wins, no matter how small, can help you feel grounded and proud amidst the season’s busyness.
📝 Try this: Write down one thing you’re proud of this year and why it matters to you.

With a little intention, this festive season can feel calmer, more connected, and full of what truly matters.

And if you’d like more support with this in your motherhood, my coaching doors will reopen in 2025. Until then, here’s to a season that feels bright in all the right ways.

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This article is by Katrina Court, you can find out more about Katrina and her work here on her profile page.

Katrina is an ICF-certified coach, Mama Rising™ Matrescence Facilitator and mother of one. She works with mamas in the messy, early years of motherhood supporting them to regain their sense of self amidst the pressure of modern parenting – even if they lack the time and headspace – so they can feel more grounded and enjoy motherhood on their terms. You can find out more and book a free discovery call through her profile page.

November 29, 2024