What does it mean to be a woman who is ‘Winning at Life’? 


Winning at Life can mean so many different things to different people and at different times in their life, 

“What matters… is not the meaning of life in general but rather the specific meaning of a person’s life at a given moment.”  

Viktor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning 

So today in this given moment, what does ‘Winning at Life mean to you”. 

Does it mean: 


  • Being the best mum you can be? 
  • Achieving balance between work and home life? 
  • Excelling in your career until you get the lead role you want? 
  • Ticking off all the things on your bucket list? 
  • Giving back to the community? 
  • Working towards becoming financially independent? 
  • Starting your own business? 


Winning at Life means that you are living your dream life, pursuing your goals and when you look back at your life when you are sitting on your rocking chair, you are calm and happy .  

When you Win at Life you are living with authenticity and intention where you have created the balanced life that you want.  

You have the confidence to know what matters to you and let go of what doesn’t, and you are there for your loved ones by being the best version of yourself. 

Is it selfish to be a woman who is winning at life?  


The answer is No.  Winning at Life is not about being better than anyone else. It is not comparing yourself to others, but being the most authentic version of yourself and living in alignment with your values, what matters to you most and letting go of what doesn’t. It is not selfish, to make sure you are looking after your mind, body, heart and soul so that you can be the mum, business owner, employee, daughter, wife that you truly want to be. 

Life is hard and there are many obstacles or challenges along the way. 

That’s where I come in, to help you feel empowered, resilient, confident and calm so that you too are Winning at Life. 



Because women who Win at Life take control, have clarity on their goals and they have the tools in place to protect their time and their energy. They create boundaries and they glide through all the roles they play with grace. 


If you would like to find out how you too can ‘Win at Life’  

Download my free guide: 10 Power Principles to Winning at Life 


This article was written by Suzy Malhotra, one of Careering into Motherhood’s Partner Coaches.  Suzy helps women navigate the complexities and uncertainties of life and find strength, wisdom, confidence and calm using 1:1 Coaching and online programmes. She offers a free discovery call for prospective clients.